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Talks of Sexologie Magazine What our readers think about web dating?
Here is the questionnaire we have sent to some of our readers, men and women who kindly accept to answer. Our inquiry has no statistic intention, only an instant picture of what is in the air by our time. |
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Questions
- How do you make your
choice? What do you avoid?
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A "home made" decision! Most of our readers decide to
register because of good opinions of a friend, a relative... Nowadays,
it seems to be very fashioned, specially in big cities. People in their
thirties, find unusual a person who is NOT registered on a dating website...
Older as younger people often hesitate a long time before...
Men and women think that people
they meet on dating websites are not ready for love. They are just getting
out another love story, they suffer a lot, are not sure of what they really
want. Sometimes, they try to use others like toys, it reassures them.
Selection criteria are very important, usually people are able to draw a very precise portrait of the person they are looking for. But Usually they admit that they could fall in love with somebody who is different from these criteria...
In fact, users think that the form with many physical details makes them think in a “catalogue attitude”. |
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Find somebody in the neighborhood. Many people want to find somebody
in their neighborhood: the “girl or the boy next door”...
So they accept that their registration do not really protect their privacy.
Ann, 29, reports that a sport teacher of her son, said to her: “
Hey, You are on Meetic!”, “You too”, answered Ann!! Most of women have hight criteria for language, they do not contact men who badly writes, only a few men do the same.. ... Good looking... Our readers agree to admit they carefully chose their picture, they wanted to present themselves as they are in the daily life. Naturally, they select their dates looking at their pictures with a similar care!!!! |
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What is showed, and what is hidden On most of dating websites, there are questions
you answer to build your profile (body appearance, social status, favorites
activities...) It is interesting to discover what questions stays blank...
Dan, 32, doest not want to precise how much money he earns, Sofia, 45
doest not want to say what is attractive in her appearance, she explains
“If I say that my buttocks are the most attractive part of my
body, men will understand that I am looking for sex only, and of course,
that is not true...” |
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YES or NO ? Most would not advise people they judge weak or vulnerable , because they think it exists some traps and dangers. People who lie, who try to manipulate, who are not fair, or, worse, thieves. Our readers never report that they have been disturbed by mad persons or some suffering of sexual perversion. But as a whole, they are declared
fully satisfied! Some of our readers wanted to testify in this direction
because they really found the person whom they sought: Marc explains:
“I divorced at 43 years, I remained a long time in a kind of inner
silence, then, a friend of mine told me to try a dating website, I did
not believe it could work, anyway, I registered. I met many women, and
several months later, I found the one I waited for. I would never have
thought that could arrive to me, but we felt in love almost immediately.
But, we took time to discover each other, now, life has got a delicious
taste!“
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